Proverbs 22:6 King James Version (KJV)
Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
I have no kids but I had to work for what I wanted from a very young age.
my parents provide my NEEDS very well but if I WANTED something it was on me to earn it. and I will be eternally grateful they took this stance.
not only did it teach me a work ethic but it taught me the value of money and that it does not just grow on trees to be plucked when needed.
from the time I was ten I worked on a farm, moving pipe ,picking rock ,building fence, throwing hay bails around and even running equipment from the time I was about twelve or so. by the time I was 14 I could hold my own loading hay trucks with any adult and better then most.
maybe I was an odd child but I enjoyed working and the sense of pride it gave me.
in fact I still do even though it hurts a lot more then it used to.
one of my biggest pet peaves is this "go fund me" nonsense that kids today are into.
I am constantly getting the "fund me " I need money for my sports or some such thing from my nieces and nephews.
folks who know me ,know I will happily help a friend in bad straights meet their needs, IF, they are also pulling their weight or if they are injured and cannot. but I cannot abide folks begging for things they want but really don't need.
I generally tell the "go fund me" folks ," you don't see me begging money cause I want a boat do you? go get a damn job like I have to ,to get the things you want. things you earn ,mean more to you then things given ,ever will."
enough on my rant, it just galls me that so many act as if they are entitled to beg and cannot comprehend that I won't be willing to give them what they desire.