I read alot of posts, but I don't speak out very often, this one is one I do have to chime in on. Your co-worker shouldn't have showed you his spot, but he did. He may not have thought at the time you would acctually go there, and I'm sure he didn't think you would bring a big group on buddies along! DO NOT take your buddies there, or tell them where it is. I would only hunt there "if" he invited you. I think everyone who has hunted for a long time has experianced similar situations. I myself only hunt someones spot if they invite me along or its an area that you wait years to draw a tag for and they aren't hunting it that year and don't mind if I do. I have "MY" spots that I hunt. One in particular that I have hunted for over 20 years, its my favorite spot to hunt elk. I have taken very few buddies there, they get discouraged very quickly, so I don't worry too much about them telling everone about it. Believe it or not I've never killed an elk there, but I've had many close calls. I will kill a big bull there someday, and when people ask me where I got it I will tell them the most popular area I can think of! Hunting isn't all about killing something, do yourself a favor and start hunting for a differant place to hunt. Also tell your co-worker your not going to hunt "his" spot.