mcseal2,
I'm right with you with your aversion to recoil. I've fired rifles that were just too painful. Merely looking at mega-magnum cartridges causes me to flinch. And reality is they aren't going to kill any better than a .308 Win. I've seen studly dudes beaten up by .300 Win Mag rifles. And were I to buy a .308 caliber mag, it would be a .300 Win Mag. I know my limitation, and it's 7MM Rem Mag recoil.
I, too, shoot for accuracy; however, I'm not quite as technical. I do examine sectional density, mostly for penetration purposes. I don't consider wind drift. I stop at bench shooting accuracy. The reason is if it's too windy for any bullet, it's time to close distance. If wind is in my favor, I'll stalk. If not, I'll wait it out hoping game comes to me.